expected, inevitable or wat...

not a lot of things matter these days, save just a few, over which i want my unconditional control (yes i am extremely dominating even when i dont intend so) but the situation which should be under control sometimes takes turns, that even though i have the control the exercise of the same would lead to not so desirable results...
so despite of the fact that i have the control in my hand i still bend and accept whatever is given to me coz my desicion would not affect any one else but me.. and not in a gud way...
in the end it comes down to same old question which way to go... principles or praticality, what should i do, the expected,the ineveitable or to tell them my choice who are just not capable of understanding as to what i actually mean?
and when the choices are to be for the issues dear to you or the ones for which u have waited for a really long time... should we say, stick to the principle and forget the dream or enjoy the dream and let the principles be gone...
so is it really a matter of choice or just blind acceptance of the easier way out of the situation?
but again why should they matter for whom you r not that 'important' ....